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    You're Not Alone

    Help Is Here

    Real resources for the hardest stretch.

    A Few Simple Things

    • Drink water. Your body is doing something hard right now.
    • Text one safe person. You don't have to explain. Just say, "It happened."
    • Write down one memory before it blurs. Just one.
    • Give yourself permission not to function normally. You just lost someone.

    Call Someone Now

    Tufts Pet Loss Support Helpline

    Supports both grief after a loss and people facing euthanasia or other end-of-life decisions.

    Monday–Thursday, 6–9 PM EST · 24-hour voicemail

    MSPCA-Angell Grief Support

    Anticipatory grief, euthanasia-related stress, and grief after loss.

    Tufts Counseling and Support

    Free counseling around emergencies, chronic illness, difficult decisions, grief, and pet loss.

    Aftercare Options

    Private cremation — ashes returned. Typically $100–$350 in Central MA.
    Communal cremation — ashes not returned. Lower cost, still dignified.
    Aquamation — water-based alternative. Growing availability in New England.
    Home burial — legal in MA on property you own. 3+ feet depth, natural fiber.
    Download the full aftercare guide

    Practical Help

    Lap of Love

    Quality of life assessment, hospice, and in-home euthanasia.

    Worcester Animal Rescue League

    Low-cost community clinics, pet food support, and community pet services.

    Second Chance Animal Services

    Affordable veterinary hospitals open to everyone. Subsidized rates for qualifying households.

    RedRover Relief

    Financial assistance for urgent and emergency veterinary care. Available nationwide.

    The First Crossing

    A guided farewell ceremony — free, private, about five minutes.

    Your private space

    Memory capture, grief journals, farewell rituals, and quality-of-life tracking — free and private.

    Create Your Free Space

    Free · Private · No credit card

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